Respect is so important for everybody and we all know that, but how much we value our self respect is a big question. What we can do for our self respect and how much we struggle to maintain it.
Without self respect you feel incomplete and are not able to understand your true value. If anybody disrespects you, according to me, if you behave normal at that point, then this is not a normal behaviour at all because this is the time when you took a step to defend your self-respect and believe me this is important.
First you need to understand your value and your self-respect, because if you don’t, then you are unable to stand-up for you and no one ever respect you.
Now there are some signs, when you need to understand that this is the time to let go the person who didn’t value you or your respect:-
1. Force You To Be Someone Else:-
This step is 1st in my list because I want to show you how important this is for you. I know lots of people (he/she), who play a different personality because someone else wants it, someone who claims that loves you, but this is not love. This is selfish behaviour of theirs and not acceptable at any cost (even the cost of letting go). So please don’t change yourself for anyone.
I understand this is not easy to let go, but believe me this is for you and only for your good. So be brave and wash away the person from your precious life who didn’t understand that how much your respect is important for you.
2. Actions don’t Match Their Words:-
We all need a person who shows us the bright path of tomorrow. It is difficult to find that particular person for you because in today’s world people actions don’t match their words and if there is a person in your life whose words don’t match his/her action, then it’s better to let go that person because it is always to be alone than to be in a bad company.
3. Stop Forcing Yourself To Love Someone:-
Accept that we can’t force anyone to love us and never beg someone to stay with you. Love is all about FREEDOM. Always remember one thing love sometime leaves you without any reason, but never leaves you without lesson.
If someone truly loves you, then he/she never gives you a reason to doubt it and if the person not show you any interest, then it’s better to leave that person.
4. Continuously Breaks Your Heart:-
Trusting someone is a big thing and if you trust a person blindly, then you got two things in your life for sure: 1st a friend for life and 2nd a lesson for life.
You can forgive a person who broke your trust once, twice, but what you do if the person make this his/her habit to hurt you and broke your heart. According to me, you need to leave that person immediately and never ever trust that person again.
5. Why Sacrifice Your Happiness:-
Happiness impact is huge in your life, but if someone destroying it purposely, then you have to stop that person.
Why you feel that you deserve this, open your wings and fly in the sky to far that no one can affect your life.