Once you are expert in meditation and spirituality that means when you are awakened in experience to consciousness and energy than there are two main roads that needs to be followed:
One is to be aware for everything so that nothing will bother you. You will go beyond the things like worrying and wanting, seeking for something, desire about anything or no one can easily distract your attention. You will simply rest in the moment of consciousness itself.
You are fully surrendered yourself to the moment of life no matter what pain or pleasure arises in front of you, you never care about that because you have been fixed by awakening. But this does not mean that you are accepting everything that comes in your way. It means you are dissolving yourself in every moment of life.
The second one is to be devoted to the bliss of the moment:
In this moment your main attention is about the love, and peace to feel the bliss of God. In other words you can say that your full devotions is toward the God or your guru. It does not matter whether you call it God or Guru as long as it reflects in you in form of bliss, love and peace.
Both one is too important for us because one awakes you toward love and other one will dissolve you into silence.
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