All the water in the ocean could never sink a ship unless it gets inside likewise all the pressures of life can never hurt you unless you let them in. Our way of thinking creates good or bad outcomes. You can’t connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. Think beyond yourself and reach out to others.