God has given us life and he wants us to live life to the fullest. He always demands that we should help others. But being a helping hand is not an easy task because we are not able to understand as who needs help and who do not because we do not take control of nature and thoughts of other and how they are going to take our helping nature.
There are so many people in our life, some we like and some we do not like. So it is of no use to blame or dislike others. If you do not like a person than do not try to go near to that person, you should go near to him. We should also do not try to create problems for that person.
The best thing is that you should try to understand and find out the reason as why you do not like that person, analyze it and try to fix out this problem. You must be thinking that I do not like this or that thing about his/her. But before thinking about that you should think about yourself as have you done those kinds of things in your life? May be you are not doing it now after analyzing your nature. So there are things that people do not like within us but they like us. We have to understand this thing that we have to accept the people the way they are rather than we should force them to change as per the way we like them to be.
We all are not at the same level and we have to understand this thing. If you dislike someone, it is your mistake to be lack in understanding. That person might be a terrible sinner who made lot of mistakes in his life but if you dislike him than you are also doing a mistake in your life. If you cannot help that person than you should not at least dislike him or her. People grow and learn by making mistakes and we should use thins learning to help others so that they should also not do this kind of mistakes in their life.