You, yourself as much as any body else in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Cold can freeze you to death, heat can dry you to death, but balanced together they make life flourish. If you feel you have enough learning with negativity,its time to practice positivity and your life flourish by positivity. When you are in a room with a light source, you can see the things around you. The more light that come from source the more and better you can see the things. If there is no light harder it is to see. Light is information. Darkness is lack of information.