When you control your thoughts, you control your mind. When you control your mind, you control your life. It is the nature of desire not to be satisfied, and most men live only for the gratification of it. Liberate your mind by seriously considering the views of others. We are all equal in Gods eyes, gay, straight, whatever. Love is the answer. Everything in this world has polarity, good and bad, black or white, east and west, and the list goes on. But it is all a matter of perception. It is our perception of things that leads us to believe as something being positive or negative.