How you find out what are your real dreams that you have right now, how you react when you are too excited?
How you say things to yourself, what type of criteria you use to convince yourself, because I am sure that there are times when you may confuse about the situation that time, how your inner self told you that what to do and what to not.
Lots of your reactions are depends on how correctly you told yourself about the situation.
There is one more important thing, you ask yourself something or just telling yourself that do what I want because that is the right thing and that means you just push yourself to agree with you.
And answer of all these stupid questions is just DREAM BIGGER and this solves your problem and believe me there are three reasons to dream bigger:
1. First, I want you to imagine one situation that you are coming home after 2 or 3 years and during these years you just lost contact properly with your relatives, family members and your close ones. Now you come home for forever and we all know that first impression is the last one, not for forever but for a long time and this may cause you to lose some of your loved ones. So the solution is, you throw a party and invite your very special person and if we count, then 15 to 20 persons, but now you are because there is a long list of your friends and your known, now what, what will you decide?
My suggestion is to invite all of your best and close friends, family and relative and the reason behind this, that whether you invite 15 to 20 or 100 people, the same amount of planning, stress and energy went into the situation and then why not invite all of them.
Now convert this situation into your life:
There are hectic mornings; lazy afternoons and stressed nights, maybe there are lots of problems in your life and you involve so much of your time and energy to solve all these, then what is the problem to give time to yourself because you are important and if you didn’t care about yourself, then who do.
2. Be one of them, who helps others and inspire others without any hesitation. Most of the people didn’t know that if they never follow their dreams, then this will affect others life too. Now you want to know how and the answer is simple, whether you are a human or an animal or insect, our life totally depends on one another, so if we do something good, then this will help or inspire others to do something right and if we do something wrong, then believe me this will inspire others quickly to do bad things, and if we do nothing, then this is the worst thing because this count as nothing, you do nothing to your community.
Bigger dreams help us to improve our and others life so dream bigger.
3. “How do you want to be remembered”? This is one of the main and important things that inspire all of us to do the right thing for others and help others. I don’t think that anybody wants to not be remembered for anything.
“Never believe those who say you can’t. You can! You can make it in life. Believe in your dreams. You can make all your dreams come true.”