Communication is very important in any relationship because when we speak, we just say whatever comes to our mind without giving a second thought to our words or even the tone. Sometimes people don’t realize the impact of their words on another person. It is necessary that before you speak think firstly.
Thinking before speaking is a challenge for a lot of people. There are so many people who have been hurt by others dreadful words. We are all our own individual people and can think and make choices for overselves, but often times the choices we make are based on what the people who we look up to or care about have to say about whom we are and what they think of us. The human race depends on each other.
Most people are usually nice and polite with people they know but end up hurting people they care about because they don’t watch what they say around them. If you are too comfortable with your loved ones and are hasty with your words. It might help if you could take a step back and think of them as someone else that you wish liked you.
The most important part of thinking before you speak is to take a deep breath and determine if what you are about to say is relevant to the conversation. In most cases, you should always think twice before you speak, by waiting five to ten seconds. Which will help ensure what you say does not upset others within earnshot of your words.
Speaking without carefully considering your words can become a bad habit. It is easier for those words to flow from your mouth. It could be create a positive or negative reaction among those around you. To help others to focus on maintaining a positive environment, it might be a good idea to start a think before you speak. So before you speak think and it is necessary and always work in your life and helpful to you and others.